I Learned a Lesson...
Assalamualaikum,
This is posted due to an incident yesterday. We were celebrating a birthday party in class, though only a part of us. We wanted it to be small and only a few food were brought. The other part were really upset (although not all of them) and accused us for not inviting them.
First of all, if you are reading this my friends, I am very, truly, sincerely sorry for not inviting you guys in the planning and the party. I am so regretful for not considering your feelings. We were very selfish. I hereby represent the group to apologize to all of you, upset or not.
Yes, it was our fault, mostly mine. You see, I'm mainly not part of that group, but I was invited. I was the only one who is not in the group invited, just because we were coincidentally together when we agreed to plan a party for the birthday girl. So it was mainly my fault for not inviting others or even tell them. At least I could've told you that we were planning and the birthday was going to be held yesterday, but I kept quiet, even though I'm not told to do so.
One of you were upset with me and said that we were selfish and should've considered others feelings. You were right. If you are reading this right now, my dear friend, I realized you were right and want to apologize. Although it wasn't me who planned the whole party (I only followed them and didn't have to bring anything) but I discussed with them, so it is my responsibility to apologize sincerely, not because my mother tells me so (she didn't), but very sincerely to you guys. I will apologize to you personally tomorrow.
For the parents of the ones involved, I'm truly sorry for doing this to your children. We should've thought of the best way to celebrate a classmate's birthday. We were able to think of good deeds and wrongdoings, but we didn't, so I am very sorry. I'm sure the others are sorry too. I don't want the birthday girl to be sad due to us celebrating her birthday which made others sad and upset.
Lastly, let us be friends again, all of us in Ibnu Abbas. I promise, truly promise, that next time we want to celebrate a party, we'll tell you. We'll invite all of you, either you want to plan together or just the food. We promise we won't leave you out of any parties, InsyaAllah. Thank you for the ones who had been patient with us, students or parents. A special thank you to Teacher Rin for being able to handle the behavior and the hassle of her students.
And for the I-don't-know-how-many-th time, I am so, very, truly, sincerely sorry. Please forgive me. I promise not to do anything like that ever again.
Assalamualaikum.
Nicely written. Well done Husna.
ReplyDeleteDon't feel so bad dear husna. There is hikmah behind the incident. Definitely it has matured your thinking. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
May Allah be with us and guide us always in our decision.... Aamiin.
Take care husna and all the best in your studies!
thank you very much, auntie. I appreciate your understanding comment.
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